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I've spent the better part of ten years, maybe a little longer, involved in sexuality education in some sort or another. I've attended (always as an observer) some serious sex parties and bdsm parties. I've been in rooms where a hundred people were being sexual. I go to Rocky Horror Picture Show every week where young people play at sex, arrange for sex, fall in love and fall out of love.
There is now something that I can say will reliably be TMI for me. There are somethings I just don't want to hear or see anymore. I've put in my time. I am done with it.
It is possible that the scope of that will increase, too.
It is not that I am offended or in any other way put off by people being sexual in my hearing or presence. I'm not. It's my access to that part of being human.
I am, though, very put off by the rationalizing about what someone will or won't do. If I never hear someone talking themselves into sexual behavior again, it will be too damn soon.
There is now something that I can say will reliably be TMI for me. There are somethings I just don't want to hear or see anymore. I've put in my time. I am done with it.
It is possible that the scope of that will increase, too.
It is not that I am offended or in any other way put off by people being sexual in my hearing or presence. I'm not. It's my access to that part of being human.
I am, though, very put off by the rationalizing about what someone will or won't do. If I never hear someone talking themselves into sexual behavior again, it will be too damn soon.
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