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November 7th, 2004

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Sunday, November 7th, 2004 12:04 pm
That's a song lots of people sing even (especially?) when they think they aren't singing it.

Creating rules against something -- anything -- is one verse in that song. Social conservatives strongly believe that what is not expressly permitted in law (civil or religious) is prohibited. Some of the more radical sects of many religions will say that as flat out fact.

I sing the "it's all about me song," too, though. I'm on the other end of that fence. I believe strongly that what isn't expressly forbidden is allowed.

In truth, though, neither of the those extremes expresses how groups, communities and societies live and work together. And I know I'm sining "it's all about me" because I get pissed when the radicals on the rights start telling me what I can and can't do.

For the record, though, I'd like to restate my opinion about civil law in the US. As much as the fundamentalists would like it to be otherwise, the federal government is constitutionally restricted in it's actions against citizens. The Bill of Rights was written to protect citizens from the government (remember, the colonists were pissed at King George!) by putting limits on the power of government, not to restrict the behavior of citizens. This is the reason "separation of church and state" was interpreted by the courts as "freedom of religion" including "freedom from religion."

The "right to privacy," as an example, is not in the constitution. The reason courts rule in favor of privacy is that the government has been restricted from interfering with people EXCEPT as expressly allowed. So, de facto, we have a right to privacy. It is quite funny when the radical right cries out against "activist judges." Rulings that give MORE power to the government are the activist rulings. For instance, rulings against gay marriage would be activist rulings.

It is also why courts have given credence to such awful phrases as "community standards." A phrase the radical right tries to use all the time and that the radical left hates with a passion. If we define "community" as a small enough unit, I'm all in favor of community standards. My neighborhood, for instance, might be 300 or 400 hundred people who are kinky bisexual pagans with a strong bent for communalism. But neither side would permit defining community in terms that small!

Neither side really wants strict constitutional interpretation by the federal bench. The radical right AND the radical left want to increase the authority of the Federal Government. BAD IDEA!

The "good" idea is to constantly restrict the authority of government. Governments should not be the keepers of morality for EITHER side. Period.

When a government becomes the keeper of a society's morals, it is "tyranny by the majority." Those of us on the liberal side of the political line look at the Republican party exactly in that light. Those on the Right see us the same way.

By their own arguments, both sets of radicals should want to limit government but they don't. They want government to enforce their standards. Anytime we want government to control social issues we are singing "It's all about me." And the more we want government to do, the louder we are singing. It's difficult to maintain personal responsibility while we are loudly singing.

Neither side has a moral high ground, in my view of morals, while carrying that tune.

Does that mean I want anarchy? Hell no! I'm in there with everyone else singing loudly for the things I want. :) I'm just aware that I'm a greedy bastard and I won't wail about fairness if I don't get what I want. Sometime or another in the last few years, I grew up. That doesn't meant that there isn't a lost boy in me who still likes to sing "It's all about me."

It's not about me. But it's not about YOU either. :)
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Sunday, November 7th, 2004 05:39 pm
I spend a great deal of time and energy talking about contribution. Have you noticed? :) But, contributing can have the same rotten stink of any other "higher purpose." If I really don't believe in good/evil and right/wrong, then contributing to another has no greater or lesser value as killing them. It's all the same in the end.

I've travelled down this philosophical path before. Each time, though, I have shied off. Usually because of some fear or another about who I would be if I really thought killing was the same as gifting. Probably more like not wanting the idea on the planet that killing ME is the same as giving ME a present. :)

I do, though, believe that the universe has no intrinsic moral order. There isn't a right/wrong or good/evil among the stars. Just because it does not exist intrinsically, though, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. We have only to look around to see that good and evil exist. Hell, we made up the words and the definitions to match behaviors we approve of and behaviors we don't approve of. That doesn't count all the exemptions we give ourselves so that we can do evil things in the name of goodness.

Nothing intrinsic about it. However, I have a strong preference about the world I live in. A very strong preference. Seen through my preference, killing is wrong and gifting is right. Neither one is right or wrong in and of themselves. But getting presents is a hell of lot nicer than getting killed (I think).

Today, then, I will not kill. Easy enough to make that promise. :)

Today I will gift, however. Even if nobody knows they are getting presents from me. I'm the game of Secret Santa all by myself.

I'm starting over in a way. As Fagin sang in Oliver, I'm reviewing the situation... I don't know who will come out of this, but it is not likely to be me. :) I've gotten stuck in my own version of right/wrong that of thinking it's wrong to think there is right/wrong. :)

I don't know where this is going. I have a strong feeling it is being motivated by a decision I've just noticed I've recently made. I've decided to be less generous. Far less generous. I know I've made the decision because I've stopped making excuses for others. I've stopped thinking that each "oddity" I observe is an aberration when it's really a pattern. I've stopped letting it be okay with me when I'm hurt or used.

It's going to alter many relationships. I wish I cared. Actually, no. I'm pretty damn happy that I don't care. It's part of the generosity that I'm dumping. It is that part of generosity that smells like a full septic tank on a hot day.

I'm glad it's on its way out.

If I'm so damn glad, why do I feel like I just kicked someone's puppy?