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An Inquiry into categorization of life.
The art of measuring success and failure is extremely complicated.
Some may say that it is easy to tell if you set up goals that have specific measurable results, specific times for completion of each step along the way and an unbiased observer to watch your progress. Those folks would not be wrong for task oriented success or failure.
But there are other things in life besides tasks, goals, clocks and calendars. Success and failure is much harder to predict and impossible to declare in any objective reality.
For instance, a couple is married for 25 years. They divorce. Was their relationship a success or failure? Do those words have meaning in that context? What if they didn't divorce, but spent fifty years loathing each other? Successful marriage between two people in an unsuccessful relationship?
And what standard is used to compare against? Personal philosophy, religious teachings, societal expectations?
Who has the right or authority to decide if a life was or was not successful?
So such sayings as "If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem" carry an implication of success/failure in the way individuals live?
The art of measuring success and failure is extremely complicated.
Some may say that it is easy to tell if you set up goals that have specific measurable results, specific times for completion of each step along the way and an unbiased observer to watch your progress. Those folks would not be wrong for task oriented success or failure.
But there are other things in life besides tasks, goals, clocks and calendars. Success and failure is much harder to predict and impossible to declare in any objective reality.
For instance, a couple is married for 25 years. They divorce. Was their relationship a success or failure? Do those words have meaning in that context? What if they didn't divorce, but spent fifty years loathing each other? Successful marriage between two people in an unsuccessful relationship?
And what standard is used to compare against? Personal philosophy, religious teachings, societal expectations?
Who has the right or authority to decide if a life was or was not successful?
So such sayings as "If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem" carry an implication of success/failure in the way individuals live?
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I also thought that I felt really good and wondered why that nice feeling wasn't my natural state, or why I didn't pursue it more. And then I realized that comfort/feeling good wasn't on my goal list. I'm sure there's something I can drop to make room for it.
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