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Finally slept soundly (if only for a short time) last night. And that lead to dreams. And, as is my habit, I had a several dreams that were variations on a theme. (I think these dreams are some variation of Lucid Dreaming. when I'm not happy with the way one is going, I start it over.)
In my dreams last night, I was spooning with someone. The basic premise was "a nap." She and I were spoon up, me on the outside, and dozing. We were alone in the living room. The TV was going with "The American President" movie playing from the DVD. Occasionally, one would shift slightly to press closer together or to just reestablish the feeling of touching. There was nothing erotic or sexual about the touching.
It would be time to get up and she would be very angry or very hurt or both. Why, you might ask? I'll tell you.
With no intent on her part or mine for the napping to be sexual, she would either be pissed because I either did or didn't try to make it sexual, that I did or did not have an erection at any time during the spooning, or that I didn't make a big deal out of an erection if I had one.
It was no-win situation.
In my dreams last night, I was spooning with someone. The basic premise was "a nap." She and I were spoon up, me on the outside, and dozing. We were alone in the living room. The TV was going with "The American President" movie playing from the DVD. Occasionally, one would shift slightly to press closer together or to just reestablish the feeling of touching. There was nothing erotic or sexual about the touching.
It would be time to get up and she would be very angry or very hurt or both. Why, you might ask? I'll tell you.
With no intent on her part or mine for the napping to be sexual, she would either be pissed because I either did or didn't try to make it sexual, that I did or did not have an erection at any time during the spooning, or that I didn't make a big deal out of an erection if I had one.
It was no-win situation.